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Coping With Divorce

Grow Or Die After Divorce

February 25th, 2017|0 Comments

"However troublesome changes may be as we are living through them, we are almost always surprised in retrospect at the positive outcomes these negative situations bring." ~ Dennis Wholey in The Miracle of Change Midlife divorce is more than troublesome. It's almost funny to think [...]

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Cultural Myths & Divorce

February 22nd, 2017|0 Comments

“Let’s do something cheap and superficial; Let’s do something that we might regret; Let’s do something shallow and insensitive, ‘Cause this might be the only chance we get.” Sung by Burt Reynolds in the movie, Cannonball Run Empty Promises Have you ever read the book How [...]

  • Growing Into Ourselves After Divorce

Growing Into Ourselves After Divorce

February 21st, 2017|2 Comments

“Growing as wild women involves breaking out of cages, boxes, stereotypes, categories, and captivity. It involves standing tall, laughing loudly, and being who we really are.” ~ SARK, Succulent Wild Woman The Discomfort Of Growth Growing is uncomfortable and often feels perilous. And the deep-level [...]

Christian Divorce

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When You Can’t Sleep During Divorce

February 24th, 2017|0 Comments

One thing I often recall about my divorce recovery journey are the many mornings where there seemed to be no choice but to get out of bed, because sleep had become such an elusive respite. I would wake up and cry, be terrified, tormented by memories, lonely, [...]

  • Faith After Divorce

The Hard Work Of Faith After Divorce

February 16th, 2017|2 Comments

“She said that faith is not about how we feel; it is about how we live.” ~ Anne Lamott, Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith The Despair Of Divorce If you’re a normal woman going through the despair of divorce, things have been bleak for [...]

  • No Apology Necessary

No Apology Necessary

February 14th, 2017|0 Comments

“Positive thinking seems to be mandatory in the breast cancer world, to the point that unhappiness requires a kind of apology.”  ~ Barbara Ehrenreich, Bright-Sided: How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America The Sadness As a Christian woman, do you ever feel [...]

Children And Divorce

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Tips For Becoming A Better Parent During Divorce

September 22nd, 2016|0 Comments

Get Active! Without a doubt, one of the most transformative ways to get through your divorce and be a more effective parent is to become an active person. During my Mom's recovery period after the divorce, I could always tell the days when she missed a workout. [...]

  • Make Life Easier For Your Children During Divorce

3 Simple Ways To Make Life Easier For Your Children During Divorce

September 15th, 2016|0 Comments

Although divorce is a challenge for everyone involved, there are many ways you can make the transition easier for your children. In general, children are adaptable and will adjust to the new situation, but even the most resilient people can become overwhelmed when too much [...]

  • Loyalty Conflict For Your Children

Are You Creating Loyalty Conflicts For Your Children After Divorce?

September 7th, 2016|1 Comment

At its core, a loyalty conflict occurs when two parties expect a third party to side with them over the other because they either disagree or don't like each other. Vying for their child(ren)'s loyalty may be one of the most prevalent challenges for parents during a divorce. Considering [...]

Women on the Divorce Recovery Journey

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Woman healed from divorcePamela H., Huntsville, AL
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