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After Divorce: Be Wonder Woman!

April 26th, 2017|Comments Off on After Divorce: Be Wonder Woman!

"Machiavelli famously said that is better for leaders to be feared than to be loved. But leaders should choose love -- or rather warmth -- first. Trust and understanding ultimately increase influence. Leaders can project both warmth and strength in several ways -- for instance, [...]

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Giving Yourself Permission To Fall Apart After Divorce

April 23rd, 2017|Comments Off on Giving Yourself Permission To Fall Apart After Divorce

"The next time you feel like you are falling apart: Set a timer. Cry as hard as you can for five minutes. When the timer rings, get up. Go on with your day… wash the dishes, pick up your child.” ~ Geneen Roth, When You Eat [...]

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Wisdom After Divorce

April 22nd, 2017|Comments Off on Wisdom After Divorce

"Instead of looking at life as a narrowing funnel, we can see it ever widening to choose the things we want to do, to take the wisdoms we've learned and create something." ~ Liz Carpenter, Writer When The Choice Wasn't Our Own Sometimes when we're in the [...]

Christian Divorce

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Work, Life & Divorce

April 25th, 2017|Comments Off on Work, Life & Divorce

"Work should be more fun than fun." ~ Noel Coward Loving Work I have to admit, I love what I do. I don't even consider it work. I've been blessed that every single job I've had has been something I have truly enjoyed doing. Don't get me wrong... [...]

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Divorce Recovery: Loving Ourselves

April 24th, 2017|Comments Off on Divorce Recovery: Loving Ourselves

"To become self-reliant, you must trust your own inner nature and love yourself. Then, if the Wizard tells you to bring back the broomstick of the Wicked Witch of the West, you will pay absolutely no attention to that man behind the curtain." ~ Joey [...]

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Being Comfortable Is Not The Goal After Divorce

April 11th, 2017|Comments Off on Being Comfortable Is Not The Goal After Divorce

"We should be more interested in being faithful than in being comfortable." ~ Randy Harris, speaker, writer, professor of theology, philosophy and religion Be Fearless In one of the great lectures I attended at a conference in California, the speaker, Randy Harris made the point that [...]

Children And Divorce

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Tips For Becoming A Better Parent During Divorce

September 22nd, 2016|0 Comments

Get Active! Without a doubt, one of the most transformative ways to get through your divorce and be a more effective parent is to become an active person. During my Mom's recovery period after the divorce, I could always tell the days when she missed a workout. [...]

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3 Simple Ways To Make Life Easier For Your Children During Divorce

September 15th, 2016|0 Comments

Although divorce is a challenge for everyone involved, there are many ways you can make the transition easier for your children. In general, children are adaptable and will adjust to the new situation, but even the most resilient people can become overwhelmed when too much [...]

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Are You Creating Loyalty Conflicts For Your Children After Divorce?

September 7th, 2016|1 Comment

At its core, a loyalty conflict occurs when two parties expect a third party to side with them over the other because they either disagree or don't like each other. Vying for their child(ren)'s loyalty may be one of the most prevalent challenges for parents during a divorce. Considering [...]

Women on the Divorce Recovery Journey

“Even though you don’t know me personally, I just want to say you literally saved my life. I feel as if you are beside me encouraging me every day. The emotions, information you write and the Boot camp CD have made my new unexpected life easier. Your support is priceless. Somehow it is comforting knowing that someone else is walking in my shoes.
I thank God and you for being there for me.”
Woman healed from divorcePamela H., Huntsville, AL
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Woman recovering from divorceLisa G., Tiger Eastmoor