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"Asking for help calls on your faith ... asking for support involves trusting ... asking for miracles is instinctive and can be nourished." ~ SARK, author, artist, incest survivor We All Need Help During a midlife divorce we all need help, but often times we are hesitant [...]
"Someone called my inspiration phone line and left this message: 'STOP WORKING ON YOURSELF,' and simply luxuriate in where you are right now, just as you are.'" Fixing Ourselves I think we can all get caught up with fixing ourselves. We try to figure out [...]
"Midnight in Nowhere ... could be a million towns ..." ~ Brian MacDonald Lonely Nights When I first started in my divorce recovery work, I did a radio show called Midnight in Nowhere. The name comes from a song about the grieving of lost love. When I [...]
"More geese than swans now live, more fools than wise." ~ Anonymous - 1612 Fools Are Easy to Come By Wisdom is hard to come by on our own. It usually takes a bad experience or an inner struggle of some kind to gain wisdom. Foolishness, [...]
"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want; if they can't find them, they make them." ~ George Bernard [...]
"Joyful people live their lives finding ways to celebrate what is and not what could have been." ~ Jane Jayroe The Negative Person There are happy, joyful people in the world, and there are grumps. Think of the word "grump" and whose picture is beside that [...]
One of the biggest issues I keep hearing parents talk about during divorce is that their children won't express their feelings or open up. When I began thinking back on my time during high school, sort of the high-time of the divorce "fireworks," I was [...]
"To be intimate with a married man, when my own father cheated on my mother, is not something I could forgive. I could not look at myself in the morning if I did that. I wouldn't be attracted to a man who would cheat on [...]
I was about 15 when my parents officially got divorced. It wasn't a pretty divorce, but I'm sure it wasn't the worst. It took about three years of struggle for my Mom to finally call it quits and put an end to the marriage. Then [...]
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