The Midlife Divorce Recovery Blog

Thoughts on Divorce Recovery, Support and Healing

Be great during divorce

Divorce is one of those experiences in your life when we are overcome with our own troubles.  We”re sad.  We’re mad.  We’re hurt.  We’re enveloped with everything that is happening to us.  We become self-absorbed.  Mostly we’re just trying to keep from being sucked under this great torrent of overwhelming change,  and that means […]

By |October 24th, 2014|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Are Your divorce recovery resources helping?

During my divorce recovery journey, I read all kinds of books.  I read every book I thought would be helpful in recovering from divorce.  And many of them were helpful.  I used the lessons of others to help myself get better.  In fact, I wrote a book of my own to add to the […]

By |October 20th, 2014|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Are you still carrying a grudge after divorce?

Okay, here’s the picture.  You’re in the middle of divorce or maybe you’ve been divorced for awhile.  You are in your bed crying or sitting on your porch or in the breakroom at work being furious that your wasband is out of town and probably has his little honey with him; or you are […]

By |July 30th, 2014|Today's Blog, Uncategorized|Comments Off

Are You Stuck in the Divorce Pit?

Stuck is a word I hear often in my work with women going through divorce.  I hear comments like “I’m stuck in this divorce, and I don’t know how to move forward.”  Or, “I’m stuck and I don’t know how to stop thinking about him.”  Or “I’m stuck on this roller coaster of erratic, […]

By |June 18th, 2014|Uncategorized|Comments Off

Your Divorce Support Team

I have never been very good at asking for help.  But during my long divorce struggle, after stumbling and bumbling around on my own for too long, I thought to myself, “This isn’t working.”  Don’t get me wrong.  I knew I needed help and I prayed continually for God’s help, and I talked to my parents […]

By |June 16th, 2014|Uncategorized|Comments Off