While The Grief Of Divorce Is Fresh

“While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates.” ~ Dr. Samuel Johnson A Battle For Survival As I write these daily thoughts about midlife divorce recovery, I realize that you who read them are at different places in this journey. For many of you, the “grief is fresh.” You are still in that raw and [...]

Holding Your Tongue During Divorce

“I actually learned that you have more power when you shut up.” ~ Andy Warhol Strength In Silence People from every culture and every country and every religious persuasion speak virtuously about silence. As a young man, Andy Warhol came to the conclusion that it was virtually impossible to get someone to do what you [...]

How Do I Get Over A Divorce?

At this point you may have come to the realization that getting over a divorce is a lot more complicated than you thought. In fact, you may be asking yourself: "How long am I going to feel like this? When am I going to start feeling better? Why can't I stop obsessing over this divorce? [...]

Lonely For Myself After Divorce

"We’ve been so busy being the good wife… the good mother… the good daughter, the outstanding employee, the successful entrepreneur, and everyone else’s idea of what 'perfect' is supposed to be that we’ve lost touch with who we really are.” Elaine St. James, author of Living the Simple Life

 Who Am I? “’I’m lonely for [...]

Finding Control During Divorce

“And life – especially in the crucible of a divorce – is really a continual series of decisions about how to act.” ~ Gabriel Cohen Out Of Control Gabriel Cohen’s statement, “a continual series of decisions about how to act,” sounds so in control, when everything that happens in a divorce is so out of control. Almost [...]

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