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The Power of Dignity During Divorce

“Dignity, in fact, is invariably the mask to assume under difficult circumstances: It is as if nothing can affect you, and you have all the time in the world to respond. This is an extremely powerful pose.” ~ The 14 Laws of Power by Robert Green and Joose Elfers During my midlife divorce, there were times [...]

Being who we really are after divorce

“Growing as wild women involves breaking out of cages, boxes, stereotypes, categories, and captivity. It involves standing tall, laughing loudly, and being who we really are.” ~ SARK, Author of  Succulent Wild Woman Growing is uncomfortable and often feels perilous. And the deep-level of rejection we experience in a midlife divorce can make the process really [...]

Watch the Fireworks – Divorce or No Divorce

In the middle of my divorce, sometimes I wanted to just go unconscious. I was in so much pain I was having trouble dealing with the reality of what was happening. I wanted to go to sleep and wake up and it would all be resolved. Here's a quote from Marianne Williamson that's so appropriate [...]

Musak and Divorce

“I worry that the person who thought up Muzak might be thinking up something else.” Lily Tomlin I have a women’s quote book called Women’s Lip: Outrageous, irreverent and just plain hilarious quotes. Some of them are not appropriate even for this RADiCAL Blog. Some aren’t appropriate for other reasons. But the Lily Tomlin quote made me think about the fact that MUSAK was designed to not offend anybody. It was supposed to be noncommittal, non-threatening, sort of white noise. Just something to take up space inoffensively. I don’t want music like that. I DON’T WANT A LIFE LIKE THAT! […]

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Try this today – it’s so worth it

A simple act of kindness can change someone’s day. Try it today and see what happens. It’s amazing, addicting and it makes life sparkle in all kinds of ways! “Life would be much more exciting if each of us left a trail of ‘little sparks of appreciation’ along our way.” David Dunn, author of Try Giving Yourself Away It’s so simple to show appreciation. Look at all the people you come in contact with in a day. They are all human beings like you with problems, sorrows, joys, frustrations. You have no idea the obstacles and challenges they may be facing every day. What a difference it makes to simply be appreciative and try to connect with another real live person. […]

Ready to date? teleconference

You may not feel ready to date yet, but to get some great information for future use, take a look at this upcoming telesummit. "There is no better time for your new beginning. If not now, then when? We are each caretakers of our new beginnings." SARK Sometimes new beginnings are forced on [...]

Enough is Enough

Guest Blog:  The most important thing that has helped me heal from the pain of my divorce: knowing I am enough.  The hardest issue for me in my divorce was my feeling that my wasband chose not to work on our relationship but to leave me because I was not enough. That if I had been [...]

After the Explosion of Divorce

“Watch. Wait. Time will unfold and fulfill its purpose. While we wait, we must not go unconscious. We must think and grow.  Rejoice and dream, kneel and pray.” ~ Marianne Williamson In the middle of my divorce, sometimes I wanted to just go unconscious. I was in so much pain I was having trouble dealing [...]

The Good Life After Divorce

“You have to count on living every single day in a way you believe will make you feel good about your life -- so that if it were over tomorrow, you’d be content with yourself.” ~ Jane Seymour, Actor Before my mom died, she and I had a conversation about her life, and she made [...]

A natural antidote to the pain of divorce

Daisy and Aislinn with fish they caught It’s amazing what a week in the Mountains can do for one’s outlook.  We had 22 assorted children, grandchildren and friends all gathered in one place in the mountains.  My goal was just to drink in the mountain air, help each grandchild catch a fish on [...]