Unwanted Divorce

2019-01-02T20:22:29+00:00

I didn’t want to be divorced. I always thought my ex and I could fix anything and could even be stronger than ever. But when I finally realized I couldn’t save my marriage, and my unwanted divorce was final, I wondered how I could survive. I honestly thought I would never really be happy

Unwanted Divorce2019-01-02T20:22:29+00:00

Christmas Alone After Divorce

2019-01-02T20:24:05+00:00

Spending Christmas alone after divorce can bring heartache that is hard to describe. The expectations about families and Christmas are often unrealistic After divorce, the whole holiday season often causes more sadness and stress than comfort and joy. It doesn’t have to be that way. When you are experiencing your first Christmas after divorce,

Christmas Alone After Divorce2019-01-02T20:24:05+00:00

Husband Is Having An Emotional Affair

2019-01-02T20:27:39+00:00

Emotional Affair Warning Signs Most emotional affairs start innocently enough.  For example, a woman in your husband’s workplace is having trouble in her marriage, and in the middle of their busy days, she begins to confide in your husband.  She says her husband doesn’t understand her. Before long, an emotional affair husband and his

Husband Is Having An Emotional Affair2019-01-02T20:27:39+00:00

Trial Separations: Do They Work?

2019-01-02T20:29:22+00:00

When your marriage is increasingly off track or seemingly headed for a cliff, sometimes it’s good to agree to a trial separation to get some time and space between you.  A trial separation can be a cooling off period or a time to really rethink where your marriage is headed. At times, the marital

Trial Separations: Do They Work?2019-01-02T20:29:22+00:00

Spousal Abandonment Syndrome

2019-01-02T20:39:08+00:00

The general definition of abandonment is: Giving up or withdrawal of support from something or someone The act of leaving or deserting a person or property. Spousal Abandonment Syndrome is when one of the spouses leaves the marriage without any warning, and—usually–without having shown any signs of unhappiness with the relationship. With spousal abandonment,

Spousal Abandonment Syndrome2019-01-02T20:39:08+00:00

My Ex-Husband Is Getting Remarried

2019-01-02T20:30:59+00:00

I’ve always thought the term “remarry” is confusing. I don’t know if remarried is even the right term for when our ex-husband is getting married again.  It seems if he was truly getting remarried, he would be remarrying me! But, of course, my ex husband remarried another woman. When our ex-husband is getting remarried,

My Ex-Husband Is Getting Remarried2019-01-02T20:30:59+00:00

Infidelity Recovery Stages

2018-09-12T15:15:33+00:00

“Infidelity Recovery Stages.” That sounds so neat and tidy. The stages of healing after infidelity.  I thought to myself, “Is healing even possible after infidelity?”  Recovery from the damage and devastation that is caused by this kind of betrayal is never easy.  Infidelity is one of the most serious assaults on a marriage there

Infidelity Recovery Stages2018-09-12T15:15:33+00:00

Life Satisfaction & Resilience Survey

2019-01-02T19:29:18+00:00

Dear Midlife Divorce Recovery tribe, We were recently contacted by a doctoral student who is studying the life satisfaction and resilience of women after divorce for her dissertation. We are excited that we are in a place where we can potentially help her and the world at large better understand the impacts of divorce

Life Satisfaction & Resilience Survey2019-01-02T19:29:18+00:00

Boundaries With An Ex-Spouse

2018-08-21T23:06:24+00:00

Boundaries with ex spouses are best for everyone who is trying to move on after divorce.  Divorce is often ugly and heartbreaking. Setting boundaries after divorce gives you time and space to grieve your losses and start healing from the overwhelming ordeal of the divorce itself. In spite of the usually adversarial nature of

Boundaries With An Ex-Spouse2018-08-21T23:06:24+00:00

Midlife Crisis Divorce

2018-08-20T21:03:44+00:00

My mission and my passion is helping women who are a facing a midlife divorce. I didn’t plan on this work, but I went through a divorce when I was 53 and I was a mess. My wasband (he was my husband, but he’s not any more) decided he needed something more exciting than

Midlife Crisis Divorce2018-08-20T21:03:44+00:00
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