About Suzy Brown

Suzy developed Midlife Divorce Recovery as a safe refuge for people healing and surviving the overwhelm of divorce. Starting her first RADiCAL support group in 2003 she's been helping women navigate the journey of divorce ever since.

My Husband Cheated And Blames Me For It

2020-01-28T16:22:03+00:00

A man who cheats on his wife is bad enough. When your husband cheats and blames you for his cheating, he is not only unfaithful, but dishonorable as well. Really?! Come on guys, if you’re cheating, man up! Take responsibility for your own actions!  Seriously, why do cheaters blame their spouse? Did you force

My Husband Cheated And Blames Me For It2020-01-28T16:22:03+00:00

I Love You But I’m Not IN Love With You: What It Means

2020-01-25T22:04:58+00:00

This blog is for men who say the words “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” and their wives or ex-wives who have heard those heart-stopping, soul-crushing words from their husband. ARRRGH! There it is again, that infuriating, devastating phrase...”I love you but I’m not in love with you.” If I

I Love You But I’m Not IN Love With You: What It Means2020-01-25T22:04:58+00:00

How To Stop A Divorce

2020-01-13T13:18:11+00:00

“This can’t be happening! I don’t want a divorce!” she thought to herself. “We have everything we need. We have amazing kids. We have supportive extended families. We have good health and we’re okay financially. We have close friends and a solid spiritual foundation. How can divorce be happening to us? “  Those same

How To Stop A Divorce2020-01-13T13:18:11+00:00

My Husband Has A Female Coworker Friend

2019-12-15T06:25:18+00:00

Let’s face it, it today’s work culture, there is a lot of opportunity for your husband to have female coworker friends. In fact, it’s almost impossible not to have opposite sex coworker friendships if you are in the workforce at all. Most office friendships remain platonic. In fact, there can be even close friendships

My Husband Has A Female Coworker Friend2019-12-15T06:25:18+00:00

Feeling Inadequate During Marriage

2019-12-09T22:33:03+00:00

In strong, happy marriages, we are each responsible for our own self-confidence...our own positive feelings of worth. When we continually feel inadequate or “not enough” in our marriage and like “nothing is ever good enough for my husband,” it becomes increasingly difficult to feel good about ourselves the longer that continues. Marriage can be

Feeling Inadequate During Marriage2019-12-09T22:33:03+00:00

Losing Friends & Family After Divorce

2019-11-26T01:07:36+00:00

Divorce is probably the hardest experience we will ever go through, especially if we didn’t want the divorce. During separation and divorce is when we need friends and family the most. Everyone’s divorce is different, but almost every divorce includes losing friends and sometimes even family. For women, especially, a friend listens to our

Losing Friends & Family After Divorce2019-11-26T01:07:36+00:00

How To Spot Divorce Warning Signs

2019-11-25T17:54:40+00:00

When I sadly realized that divorce might happen to me, I kept asking myself, “Were there any warning signs of divorce I didn’t pick up on?” I wondered if there were signals that should have alerted me to the fact that my then-husband wasn’t happy. I spent lots of time pondering how I could not

How To Spot Divorce Warning Signs2019-11-25T17:54:40+00:00

How To Leave Your Husband

2019-10-24T21:28:14+00:00

Making the decision to leave my husband was the most heart-breaking, gut-wrenching decision I have ever made in my life. Figuring out if and how to leave my husband were dilemmas I could never have imagined when I made my marriage vows 33 years earlier in the presence of God, my family and my

How To Leave Your Husband2019-10-24T21:28:14+00:00

Inappropriate Friendships When Married

2019-10-24T21:27:27+00:00

I think almost all married people have friends of the opposite gender while married.  In today’s world, it would be almost impossible not to have opposite-sex friends. But some of us reading this blog are getting divorced or are already divorced because our husband had a friendship when we were married that became an

Inappropriate Friendships When Married2019-10-24T21:27:27+00:00

Divorce Counseling & Therapy: Do They Work?

2019-10-13T02:52:04+00:00

Divorce counseling and divorce therapy, for both individuals and couples, are large categories that cover a lot of territory...and for most of us, a lot of time and money! During my own divorce journey, I took advantage of several types of divorce counseling before, during and after our divorce.  The question about whether divorce

Divorce Counseling & Therapy: Do They Work?2019-10-13T02:52:04+00:00
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