Adultery & Divorcer

Adultery and divorce are very painful to deal with, but it doesn’t have to last forever. Suzy can help you heal from the betrayal and create a new, happier life.

My Husband Has A Female Coworker Friend


Let’s face it, it today’s work culture, there is a lot of opportunity for your husband to have female coworker friends. In fact, it’s almost impossible not to have opposite sex coworker friendships if you are in the workforce at all. Most office friendships remain platonic. In fact, there can be even close friendships

My Husband Has A Female Coworker Friend2019-12-15T06:25:18+00:00

Inappropriate Friendships When Married


I think almost all married people have friends of the opposite gender while married.  In today’s world, it would be almost impossible not to have opposite-sex friends. But some of us reading this blog are getting divorced or are already divorced because our husband had a friendship when we were married that became an

Inappropriate Friendships When Married2019-10-24T21:27:27+00:00

How To Get Revenge On A Cheating Husband


Trying to get revenge on a cheating husband almost always hurts us more than it hurts him. All that obsessing and planning revenge takes away precious time and energy from what we really should be focused on…ourselves and where WE go from here. It took me longer than it should have to figure that

How To Get Revenge On A Cheating Husband2019-09-14T13:35:03+00:00

Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity?


When I discovered my then husband’s first affair, we had been married 10 years. I was shocked! After the rage, sadness and despair settled down a bit, I wondered, “Can our marriage survive infidelity?” “Can I ever really get over this awful sense of betrayal? Can I ever trust him after his affair and

Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity?2019-08-16T15:46:52+00:00

Signs Of A Cheating Husband


First of all, most wives are not looking for signs of a cheating husband. Most of us are busy with family and life in general. We’re not even thinking about tell-tale signs that our husband is cheating. We’re focused on helping him, getting kids to practice, making sure homework is done, working and making

Signs Of A Cheating Husband2019-07-29T19:35:53+00:00

Infidelity Recovery Stages


“Infidelity Recovery Stages.” That sounds so neat and tidy. The stages of healing after infidelity.  I thought to myself, “Is healing even possible after infidelity?”  Recovery from the damage and devastation that is caused by this kind of betrayal is never easy.  Infidelity is one of the most serious assaults on a marriage there

Infidelity Recovery Stages2019-07-29T19:21:33+00:00

Grief vs. Nothing After Divorce: Take Grief


“Between grief and nothing, I’ll take grief.” ~ Falukner Feeling Nothing Good people often grieve. Those who hurt others with a full understanding of their actions don’t usually grieve, unless they come to their senses and at some point understand the damage they have done. Grief means you comprehend the consequences of hurtful actions.

Grief vs. Nothing After Divorce: Take Grief2019-07-31T17:38:18+00:00

Grieving Divorce


"But in spite of setbacks, recurrences and the sense that our sorrow keeps doubling back on itself, there is an end to mourning, to even the seemingly most inconsolable mourning ..." Judith Viorst, Necessary Losses The Depths Of Grief If you're living life fully and with love, mourning is always involved. In my book, Radical Recovery, I describe

Grieving Divorce2018-01-10T18:10:34+00:00

Divorce & Revenge In The Digital Age


"It's simple: The Internet turns us into a mob. 'We know that in a mob people will do socially unacceptable things they would never otherwise do ...'” ~ Elizabeth Englander, director of the Massachusetts Aggression Reduction Center of Bridgewater State College It's Easy Don't hit the send button! Many divorces today are the result of infidelity. Having a

Divorce & Revenge In The Digital Age2018-01-10T18:10:36+00:00