Considering Divorce

Trying to decide if you should get divorce or not can be one of the most difficult decisions you ever make. Let us help you decide what’s the right path forward for you.

Handling Marriage Problems After 25 Years


What happens to marriages in midlife? After 20, 25, 30 or more years? The truth is - a lot!  If you’re not married, you probably don’t understand why marriages fail after 25 years. Really, what could go wrong if your marriage has already lasted 25 or 30 or more years? If you survive all

Handling Marriage Problems After 25 Years2023-02-06T15:02:27+00:00

Divorce Because Of Alcohol Abuse


Alcohol abuse, or Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD), can destroy marriages and create havoc in all family interactions. Alcoholism makes existing relationship issues more difficult, and problems in the relationship can then cause alcohol abuse to increase. All can lead to eventual thoughts of divorcing an alcoholic. Almost every day, I get messages from women

Divorce Because Of Alcohol Abuse2023-02-06T14:00:55+00:00

How To File For Divorce Online


The Internet has made it easier than ever to get legal services in a variety of practice areas. Some states make it even easier for divorcing couples by allowing options for filing for divorce online. Additionally, some states have expanded their options for conducting legal business over the phone and internet due to the

How To File For Divorce Online2023-02-05T18:07:13+00:00

What Is Legal Separation? (Separation vs. Divorce)


Legal separation is a process in which a married couple formally separates in a way that the court recognizes. Legal separation has many legal implications and is different from a divorce because the couple is still technically married. Read on to learn about the differences between legal separation and divorce. Why Separation? In some

What Is Legal Separation? (Separation vs. Divorce)2023-02-04T16:08:15+00:00

How To Prepare For Divorce


Most of us, when we get married never think about how to prepare for divorce. In my work, I have heard about spouses who left a note on the counter, or sent a text, or after a trip or date night told their partner that they weren’t happy and needed to find themselves and

How To Prepare For Divorce2023-01-12T16:17:41+00:00

Married To A Narcissistic Husband


Having done the leg work and been in a marriage with a narcissistic husband, understand that if you are married to, or are planning to marry a narcissist, your narcissistic spouse is or will be unable to have a healthy, intimate, interpersonal relationship. You will be united to someone who does not have

Married To A Narcissistic Husband2023-01-12T16:14:23+00:00

I Love You But I’m Not IN Love With You: What It Means


This blog is for men who say the words “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” and their wives or ex-wives who have heard those heart-stopping, soul-crushing words from their husband. ARRRGH! There it is again, that infuriating, devastating phrase...”I love you but I’m not in love with you.” If I

I Love You But I’m Not IN Love With You: What It Means2023-02-04T16:12:11+00:00

How To Stop A Divorce


“This can’t be happening! I don’t want a divorce!” she thought to herself. “We have everything we need. We have amazing kids. We have supportive extended families. We have good health and we’re okay financially. We have close friends and a solid spiritual foundation. How can divorce be happening to us? “  Those same

How To Stop A Divorce2023-01-12T16:23:14+00:00

Feeling Inadequate During Marriage


In strong, happy marriages, we are each responsible for our own self-confidence...our own positive feelings of worth. When we continually feel inadequate or “not enough” in our marriage and like “nothing is ever good enough for my husband,” it becomes increasingly difficult to feel good about ourselves the longer that continues. Marriage can be

Feeling Inadequate During Marriage2023-02-04T15:56:34+00:00

How To Spot Divorce Warning Signs


When I sadly realized that divorce might happen to me, I kept asking myself, “Were there any warning signs of divorce I didn’t pick up on?” I wondered if there were signals that should have alerted me to the fact that my then-husband wasn’t happy. I spent lots of time pondering how I could not

How To Spot Divorce Warning Signs2023-01-12T16:24:00+00:00