In fact, in some ways it’s harder. Cancer or death is random. This was a choice your husband made. He either decided to leave you and move on to another woman and a different life, he abused you or he lived a life of substance abuse, pornography, or some other addiction or lifestyle that made it impossible for you to be the woman you were created to be and stay in the marriage.
This journey is not for cowards. If you let it, it can destroy you physically, emotionally and even spiritually. I know sometimes the darkness seems too powerful, and sometimes you can’t stop crying long enough to think of anything good. But the goodness is there. The joy is still there. The laughter will still be there when you’re ready. In fact, it’s all there right now. You just have to find it again.
By now you realize you can’t control someone else’s behavior … as much as you want to, and you can’t change someone’s heart … as hard as you try. But the good news is you can control your behavior. You can’t make him come to his senses, but you can come to yours.
He is responsible for his actions. You are responsible for yours. The encouraging truth is, you don’t have to settle for just making it through, or merely surviving or trying to make the best of the situation. You can choose to soar above these circumstances. You can be victorious. Get the book and you can build a stronghold of strength and power. You can create a legacy of love and confidence … starting now this very minute.
So, welcome to the Revolution. Get ready for the adventure. It’s a wild, RADiCAL life. But, it’s a life of fulfillment and excitement and abundance that will amaze you in ways you can’t even imagine yet!