Dealing with the Pile of Rubble After Midlife Divorce

2018-01-10T18:10:46+00:00

A divorce, especially a divorce at midlife, is like a huge wrecking ball that comes out of nowhere and leaves you sitting in a pile of rubble that used to be your life.  It's a huge life-altering disaster.  At least that's how it feels.  And it is life-altering.  It does not have to be, however,

Dealing with the Pile of Rubble After Midlife Divorce 2018-01-10T18:10:46+00:00

Crossing the River of Divorce

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"Waiting for life to be lovely before you start to live is like waiting for the river to run out before you cross." I'm on vacation.  I'll be gone for two whole weeks.  That's the longest I've ever been gone at one stretch and I'll admit it's hard to let go.  Our family has spent

Crossing the River of Divorce 2014-07-16T16:01:53+00:00

Shine On

2018-01-10T18:10:50+00:00

     "It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness."      Chinese Proverb Well, the actual day of Christmas has come and gone.  Yesterday, Christians celebrated the Holy Light that came into the world (as we should do every day!).  But honestly in the beginning of my divorce trip, I know I cursed

Shine On 2018-01-10T18:10:50+00:00

Warrior Women

2018-01-10T18:10:52+00:00

“Either you let your life slip away by not doing the things you want to do, or you get up and do them.”   Carl Ally (Hard-hitting, high-flying advertising guru) In a Book about creativity called “A Kick in the Seat of the Pants,” author Roger von Oech talks about the Warrior in each of us.

Warrior Women 2018-01-10T18:10:52+00:00

Laughter and tears

2018-01-10T18:10:56+00:00

During divorce laughter is hard to find. One of the best things about being with another woman going through divorce is that she gets the tears, but you can almost always find something from the situation that cracks you both up! That’s good for everybody. “The first time her laughter

Laughter and tears 2018-01-10T18:10:56+00:00

Friday before Valentine’s Day – Read this

2018-01-10T18:10:56+00:00

Love really just means doing good things for yourself and for others as often as you can. God honors that and the love you give always, always returns in one way or another. That’s a promise. Take it to the bank. “Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will

Friday before Valentine’s Day – Read this 2018-01-10T18:10:56+00:00