Are you dooming yourself to sadness after divorce?


After a midlife divorce, it is easy to just sort of "check out" of life.  That's normal for a while.  You have to take the time you need to grieve and sometimes you need to hibernate a bit before you feel comfortable walking around on the planet again. But when you have spent the time necessary

Are you dooming yourself to sadness after divorce?2018-01-10T18:10:48+00:00

Coping with Divorce during Christmas


Everyone is busy.  The holidays this year have been all squished together and that means more stress. Plus, your divorce means stress x 100 (at least!) and add exhaustion and worry and sadness and loneliness and coping and anger into that mix and you have a holiday that some of

Coping with Divorce during Christmas2018-11-28T16:56:53+00:00

Don’t Postpone Joy After Divorce


"Ever spent months, even years, of your life as if they were just a phase you were going through, an extended transition, until the time when your real life would begin? Here are two simple rules: Rule #1. BEGIN AT ONCE TO LIVE. Rule #2. DON'T POSTPONE JOY." Landon Saunders, Life That Loves to Happen

Don’t Postpone Joy After Divorce2018-01-10T18:10:51+00:00

It’s Bloom Time


It’s always our choice whether to bloom or not! “What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters, compared to what lies within us.” Ralph Waldo Emerson What lies within you today? Each of us can decide what is within us every day. Are we going to

It’s Bloom Time2018-01-10T18:10:55+00:00

What do you want?


Getting into this present moment is a gift that you can give yourself right now. You can always choose to think of something beautiful and good and lovely. The key to the good life is getting into the moment and making it wonderful. “We’re all walking around hungry

What do you want?2019-01-02T21:24:54+00:00