Let’s Go Get The Future We Deserve!
The “NO EXCUSES. NO REGRETS.” kind of life is what we should all strive for. That’s how we should live every single day. As human beings, we are continually moving up to a new level of life experience. We have a new start every 24 hours, and we should grab each new day, whatever we are facing, with gratitude for a chance to start again.
After divorce, we should all be just as excited about our new life as high school seniors or college graduates are about theirs. You’re probably rolling your eyes, but we do have the whole rest of our life ahead of us! I know that sounds scary when our path is uncharted and unsure, but let’s don’t squander this new opportunity to create a life we love.
So, after your divorce, like after graduation, go ahead … dream big! Write “Happy Graduation! My future is my choice!” at the top of the page in your daily planner in honor of this new stage. Even if the “School of Hard Knocks” is our alma mater, let’s embrace this glorious, amazing, wild, terrifying gift of a new beginning!
Real Life Graduation Success Stories
Jen Jordt graduated from college as a divorced, adult woman, so she could fulfill her passion for working with women in the prison system.
We have other RADiCAL after-divorce women like Deb DeYoung who went back to get her Masters as a Marriage, Attachment and Trauma Therapist, and Pam Piper who graduated with a BA in Business Administration after her divorce. They all started in that debilitating pit of a broken heart and a broken marriage, but they refused to let their situation keep them from going after a fulfilling, adventurous life in the future. You can decide to do that with your life, too. Start right now, today!
Believe in yourself – Dream big!
Whatever we are facing, we all get a new beginning every single morning. We should grab every new day boldly, bravely, and with a sense of adventure and fun and purpose. This is the only life we’ve got! Let’s step out of our comfort zone and make it count!
Take encouragement from others starting a new phase of life. Figure out what you want and then go for it! Find that thrill for yourself as you graduate to your own new exciting discoveries and achievements.
“No dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am bringing all my energies to bear on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead!” St. Paul in a letter to the Philippians.